The Art of Pegging: Fun For Everyone!

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This entry is brought to you courtesy of our month-long homage to Women’s History Month, “The Female Power Project.”

The art of pegging is, in my opinion, the height of sexual female empowerment over men: the women are fully, 100% in charge. However, nine times out of ten, when a woman brings up the subject of “pegging” to her male partner, the man immediately gets uncomfortable at the thought. For those of you who have not had the pleasure, pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man’s asshole with a strap-on dildo. If you are a man having just read that sentence, you may or may not have already gotten skeeved out and unintentionally clenched your asshole at the uncomfortable thought. However, not all straight men are automatically turned off by this practice.

In terms of physical pleasure, the woman may get direct stimulation from the base of the strap-on, and the man may find stimulation of the anus, rectum, adjacent organs, and particularly the prostate, which can lead to an anal orgasm. In theory, this practice sounds very pleasurable to both the man and woman, but there is just one problem: there are a lot of men who don’t want jack shit going up their butt hole. Sure, maybe that one time when you were really drunk and that hot chick slipped a finger or two in there and you actually really liked it… then ten minutes later you were screaming for her to eat your ass out and never stop. We’ve all been there.

But what if you and your significant other are fooling around in bed as usual, and all of the sudden, she brings up the fact that she may or may not have bought a leather strap-on holder for her favorite sparkly purple dildo… and wants to try it out on you. Would you say yes? No? I have brought up this (usually hypothetical) question to almost every man I’ve dated, and I’m usually met with an emphatic “NO.” There was that one guy that was more than happy to give it a try, but I broke up with him before we ever got to try it because he annoyed the shit out of me. Oh well. You can’t have everything you want in just one person.

But maybe I have been going about the proposition in the wrong way. Sure, like I’ve mentioned in previous posts, I do legitimately have penis envy. I think a lot of women do, even if they choose to keep it a secret. Every once in a while, I want to be the one in charge, the one that controls how hard and deep I thrust it into your tight manhole. But maybe I have been taking too serious of an approach. I recently read a review on “Peg-Ass-Us,” a refreshingly new way to explain the practice of pegging. According to their website:

Sex-Ed through burlesque, song, puppetry and, of course, mythical creatures!
A charming duo, set out to spread the word about the pleasures of prostate stimulation and strap-on sex. They start with the facts, but once in the deep end their personal differences play tug-of-war with the lesson plan, pulling sex from silly to serious, between kink and dignity, and wrangling over issues of gender, sexual identity and personal desires. Armed with original songs, dance, puppetry, drag, physical comedy and audience participation, the two lovers turn their bedroom and hearts inside out for the world to see. And take off their clothes.

Apparently, it doesn’t always have to be about whips, chains, and power struggles. Maybe that’s what I’ve been doing wrong. Maybe guys are literally just scared of women taking control of their coveted poop holes. Either way, check out the demo for Peg-Ass-Us below, and get on with the butt-pounding, already.

-Louise LaTease

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